Wednesday, May 13, 2020
5 Things to Do Mid-Year to Achieve Your Goals
5 Things to Do Mid-Year to Achieve Your Goals I love the month of June. Here in England, itâs when strawberries are in season, thereâs Wimbledon tennis to look forward to (it starts July 1st this year!) and it stays light until almost 10pm. And there are summer holidays (the British word for vacation) to look forward to. June also marks the middle of the year, which can be an unsettling time. Especially when youâre an achiever. For some, the rest of the year canât come quickly enough so we can see the fruits of our efforts. For others, midyear can feel like the middle of a long slog without an end in sight. But as an achiever, youâre geared toward accomplishing goals and achieving success. And there are still 6 months left to accomplish what you set out to do in January. The good news is this: whatever has (or hasnât) happened so far, you can still finish the year strong. The great thing about the middle of the year is that thereâs still time to achieve your goals for the year! 5 Ways to Set Yourself Up for a Great Second Half of the Year 1. Celebrate your wins Start by taking a moment to reflect on and celebrate your âwinsâ so far. Itâs natural to think of all your shortcomings â" like the things youâve procrastinated on or otherwise havenât yet done, and the things you have done that havenât gone as well as youâd like. But that wonât serve you well. Taking a moment to celebrate your accomplishments so far this year â" no matter if theyâre big or small â" is essential to having a great rest of the year. Accomplishing great things is done by breaking them into smaller chunks and congratulating yourself and your team on the mini-wins along the way. This helps you set yourself up to have a winning mindset â" by constantly having wins to celebrate! 2. Appreciate the people in your life As you look back, think about all the people who have helped you along the way. These are people who have stood by you, given you support or advice, and advocated for you. Theyâre also people who have done the work that needed doing whether at work or at home. Be generous in acknowledging the people around you for their contributions. And above all, let them know you appreciate them and share why you do. Being specific makes it more real for both of you whereas a general âthank youâ can seem less genuine. While expressing genuine appreciation is free, the benefits to both the âthankerâ and the âthankedâ are priceless. People matter. Relationships matter. When youâre good to people, itâll come around. 3. Identify your second-half wins Looking ahead to the rest of the year, think about ways to approach it with positivity. A great way to do that is to identify the three âwinsâ you want to have in the second half of the year. Itâs another take on the idea of visualizing your success, which is part of the success formula for high performance athletes. Letâs apply it to your work and career as well! When youâre identifying these wins, fast-forward to December when youâre looking back on the year and tap into what would make you feel great if you had done those things. And while Iâve suggested choosing three, the number is up to you. The key is to choose the ones that will be meaningful to you without having so many that it becomes unattainable. Maybe these future wins you identify relate to building relationships (which ties into the Appreciation step). Or they could be specific projects you want to get off the ground. Perhaps itâs setting yourself up for promotion to the next level. Or developing an exercise habit. There are no universally ârightâ answers, itâs just what will make a difference for you. 4. Create the conditions for your success Having identified your future wins, itâs then about creating the conditions for your success. This means doing the planning and preparation now to make it easy for you to execute later. Think of cooking shows where the chef has all the ingredients prepped and ready to go â" the onions are already chopped and in a bowl, all the seasonings are in a small dish, the salmon filets are cleaned and ready to go. That means they can cook for the audience while looking professional and free of stress. So go ahead and create the conditions that pave the way for your success. Maybe itâs simply cleaning up your workspace (think âMarie Kondo-ingâ your desk or office). Or reconnecting with people you havenât contacted in a while, but who could be instrumental in your next steps and vice versa. Or it could be signing up for some training or arranging for coaching or mentoring that will help you hit the ground running for your next phase. Do whatever it takes to set yourself up for your future wins. 5. Show up as your best self The final piece of having a great second half is about you. Yes, you â" that unique and extraordinary person who is about to have an awesome second half of the year! Think about how you want to show up in the world. Think about who you are when youâre at your best. Really tap into that best version of your self. What are you doing and saying? What environment brings that out? Who are you with (and who are you not with)? Get in touch with what it would it take to be your best self more of the time. Then make two lists. The first list is what you want to do or say MORE of. Maybe itâs celebrating small wins and appreciating the people around you (both things I forget to do and am working on!). Perhaps itâs encouraging your fellow team members by saying âyes, andâ¦â instead of âno, butâ¦â. It could also be creating a habit of drinking more water every day or speaking up in meetings. The second list is what you want to do or say LESS of. Maybe itâs finally getting rid of those âumsâ and âlikesâ that are making you sound less professional than you really are. Or judging and blaming yourself as well as others, which makes for an unpleasant experience for everyone involved. And perhaps itâs to stop making assumptions or jumping to conclusions without checking the facts. These are your lists and you get to choose what goes on them and how many items there are. Again, as with your future wins, resist the urge to make too long a list. Remember, youâre setting yourself up for success, not disappointment. The Challenge for Achievers One of my favorite quotes is, âEverything looks like a failure in the middleâ, from Harvard Business School professor Rosabeth Moss Kanter. âKanterâs Lawâ, as she calls it, is essential to keep in mind if youâre taking on new challenges and working on projects that take a while to come to fruition. Thatâs because there will be long stretches of time when youâre like the chef still assembling ingredients and the kitchen looks like a mess. The middle of the year can feel that way too, with some projects still in the formative stages while others are like souffles in the oven still waiting to rise. If youâre an achiever who likes to create, build and grow initiatives (or people), whether at home or at work, youâre going to face these challenges too. And when you do, you can turn to these five steps. Set Yourself Up for Success No matter how the first half of your year has gone, you owe it to yourself to set yourself up for success and finish the year strong. How will you set yourself up for an awesome second half of the year, and which of these five steps will most move the needle for you? Leave me a comment â" Iâd love to hear from you!
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